When traversing the globe, we should never forget that we are guests in the countries we visit. Acting respectfully of the local customs is not just preferred but expected, so you should be prepared and know which actions are acceptable. With that in mind, here are general etiquette introductions to France and Australia.
France
“Parlez-vous Anglais?” - Never assume the people you meet in France speak English. They take their language seriously and might find it arrogant if you walk up to them assuming they know a little English (even though they probably do). Learn and use a few basic French phrases, but if the conversation is not going anywhere, politely ask “parlez-vous Anglais?”
Eye to Eye - When speaking with a French person, maintain eye contact to show that you are interested in the conversation. Also, do not step back or flinch if the speaker begins to gesticulate wildly. That’s just the way they communicate.
A Kiss is Just Not a Kiss - A handshake is all that is required when meeting someone. The French only kiss—or air-kiss while touching cheeks—their friends and familiar acquaintances. Never initiate a kiss unless you are very familiar with the person.
Oh Snap - Never snap your fingers at the waitress or waiter to request your bill, for it considered extremely rude. The internationally-recognized “writing motion in the air” is preferred.
Wine and Dine - If invited to a local’s home for a meal, do not show up with a bottle of wine. The host will have thought out the wine pairings beforehand, so bringing a bottle is similar to saying, “I don’t trust your taste in wine—serve this instead.” Flowers are always appreciated.
Australia
Criminal Behavior - Although people often joke that Australia’s origins came from the penal colonies of the British, you should never suggest that the population of the country ever was or is still filled with criminals. They are proud of their heritage, which is more diverse than commonly believed.
Humor Me, Will Ya - Australians are a jovial bunch, so don’t take any personal jokes or insults too seriously. In fact, it’s a good sign if a local pokes fun at you; it means they like you.
Your Shout - When drinking beer with a group of Australians, you are expected to pay for a round. Everyone in your group will do so—it’s called “your shout.”
Wine and Dine - Unlike France, you should bring a bottle of wine when invited to an Australian’s house for dinner. Australians know their wine well, so bring a good bottle, preferably produced within the country.
